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She Won't Call Me BackCopyright © 2007-2008 Kathy Stafford, All Rights ReservedMost of us have been in a situation where we've met someone and we've made a connection. We talk a few times, but suddenly our calls aren't being returned. We try to call and leave messages, but there's no answer. When this happens, it's more a case of what you shouldn't do, rather than what you should do. Okay, so you've met this girl, and you've called her, but she's not responding. Want to know what to do? Stop calling her. Put yourself in her shoes. Some guy is calling and calling and calling. How would that make you feel? Odds are that you'd be turned off because that guy is looking needy and desperate. I don't know about you, but "needy" and "desperate" are not two qualities that I find to be appealing in my partner. Now, if this is a girl that you've been dating, you might want to think about the last time you were together. Did you say or do anything that might have made her mad at you? Maybe you did something that really hurt her feelings and she just needs a little time to cool off. Maybe this is someone that you broke up with and you're trying to make things right. First of all, think about why you broke up. Was it because she wanted to date someone else? If that's the case, you may as well walk away right now. Sure, things might not work out with the new guy, but you don't need to hang around to find out. If things don't work out, then you could think about starting up again if you choose. On the other hand, things might work out great, and the best thing you can do is remove yourself from the picture. This might be a girl that you haven't dated but you'd like to. If that's the case, stop calling her immediately! Period! Walk away from the phone. Sure, women like their men to be insistent, but they don't like them to be bordering on stalking. If you're a woman, it's great to have a guy who wants you – but it's over the top when that guy is constantly calling you and bothering you. It's not easy to accept that a girl you want to connect with isn't interested in you. We'd all like to be able to go to the girl that we're interested in and discover that she's interested in us, as well, but that doesn't always happen in real life. So call her a couple of times and get a feel for the situation. If it doesn't look like it's going to happen, your best bet is to accept this truth and keep on looking. Go on out into the dating pool and find someone who is going to appreciate everything that you have to offer. Don't waste your time trying to convince someone that they should be with you. Instead, go on out there and be with someone who wants to be with you. About The Author:
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