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From Becoming the Perfect Stranger to the Perfect Partner

Copyright (c) 2013-2023

Strangers. That is what online daters are to each other. Complete strangers, aiming for some attention from the other side of the fence. Or rather, screen.

Although we are aware of people who have fostered good relationships out of online dating, it doesn't happen all the time. As a matter of fact, most of them fail because of a slew of reasons. Here are some reminders on how to walk that ground so you can become just the right partner that another has been dying to meet.

Honesty is Still the Best Policy - In Most Cases

This reminder is so banal but this is also the most important. If you want to attract others, you have to feel it. Feel attractive. Even if you're chubby or your face is not porcelain-like or you love the opera. If you can be transparent about your traits, BE. You'll never know who has a thing for your qualities. Market yourself as you are. Don't fret. The paparazzi has shown the world shots of famed celebrities in embarrassing ways, so don't put yourself on the celebrity scale and expect people to see you as the next Victoria's Secret angel.

On the downside, do not - or never - be too honest about personal information. If a date asks you if you're a fan of rough sex or he wants to know what your Visa number is - this is the time where you'd want to shut that window and go offline.

The Thing About Meet-Ups

If you've agreed to meet up with your online date, you must have your terms regarding it. First, do not agree to meet up in a faraway town or some place you aren't aware of. Prefer open places where you could stroll, dine and have a few drinks. It's kind of creepy if he asks you to meet him at the foot of a mountain slope, right? Don't fall too much for his hotness. Don't choose the mountain slopes just to have a chance to see him in person. And if he presses you to come alone - come on, it's not like you're about to hand him over a chunk of ransom money.

Another thing about meet-ups - he might not meet up with you if he sees a plump woman in red and a rose on the table because that's what you said - except that your profile reveals a bikini-rocking body. See how far dishonesty can take you?

Share This With Somebody

Chances are, you're quite nervous during the first meet-up. In order to have some sense of peace, share this meeting with a friend or somebody close to you. The purpose is to make them aware of your whereabouts and who you're going to be with - in case it doesn't turn out right.

A Take on Drinks

So you've agreed on having an actual chat over coffee down the corner. Coffee's harmless, we know that. But the minute you take some time at the powder room, you'll never know what went on between the cup of brew that you left and your date. Yes, you don't need to be punch-drunk and alcohol-laden to be dragged into some random van. A date as friendly as that can turn out otherwise if you are not as careful as you should be.

Don't Bring Him Home to Momma - Just Yet!

It's your first date, come on! Are you going to come home and introduce him to your mother as "A guy you've been having conversations with for three days, he loves dogs like us and he likes the Jonas Brothers, too?" And he gets the couch. Because he lives quite far away and its midnight and he didn't catch the train.

Do not be drawn too much with the idea of "having a date" and scream-texting your gal pals with "Let's have breakfast tomorrow, I'd like you to meet Jason." It's not something that you should take pride in just yet. The first date should start and end at that restaurant you've agreed to meet up in, out in the sun, fully clothed, laughing, conversing. There's no room yet in this scenario for bed romps and condoms.

Perhaps, if online dating is your thing, do so with extreme caution and trust matchmaking sites with proven track record. It doesn't have to be a record full of marriages and happy-ever-after. They just have to show you that people who dated online were satisfied with how their dates turned out.

Expectation breeds disappointment, so do not over expect from online dating. It could possibly give you the exact "robot" boyfriend you want - because you can specify their age group, race, skin tone, jobs and look over their resumes first before you date them. But it doesn't mean that you'll end up with that guy. Have fun while you engage yourself in this, they could turn out to be good friends whom you can have for the rest of your life. What could be worse than having a friend, right?




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After ten years of dating, Kandice Skaggs finally met the man of her dreams online. After dating for more than one year, her and her fiancee decided to get married. Kandice suggests that you should set up a profile on as many websites as possible, because you never know where Mr. or Ms. Right might be hanging out online. One online dating site that might appeal to you is: http://www.nsadatingsite.com/

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